:: (not so civil) union ::

strangely enough

i'm now using a lappy

while attending a union ceremony of one of our best friends

really nice..

its specially planned to be held late at night here at Play

and only invited guests are sitted around.

a nice buffet spread of fine wines and cheese nibbles awaits at the counter

and we are still waiting for the grooms to appear

in a few minutes

they had specially selected today as tmr (17/12)

was when they first met 3 years ago and got attached..

how sweet right. even if its not a weekend (its onli the start of the week)

all their friends have made it a point to come and celebrate

although its just a union in name

and does not specifically have any significance in name of law

but its just really nice

because there are many people who don't believe in gay couples being together

and even those who are together, do not believe in unions.

but i tink a union is a promise to each other

a simple party (or not) is a way of telling and sharing with your friends

your joy and happiness

and also having them share with you their blessings and believes in the couple.

contrary to wat J thinks that its just another gay wild party

i tink it has much more than it appears to mean

and i feel blessed to see two of my friends

who have dared to step out

be themselves

and share their lives with one another

and telling people around them.

more importantly

their families and friends are here to witness this event

which makes me think

they are really courageous to come out to their parents.

tonight

i wish tony and branden happiness always

and may we always share the love you two have for one another

and more importantly

may your love go on forever...

will i ever have such a day?

i really dare not even think about it.

*by the way, the black tie event has close to 100 guests, and has a theme, sexy sensual silver,

that is like sooooo Branden lo.. *

waiting for the ceremony to start..